I've put XP on a neighbour's old Toshiba Tecra 8200 laptop and it's just killed a third SODIMM. Symptoms are it's running fine for hours until you restart it, when it either doesn't see the module or fails to boot if it's just the one module installed. The original Toshiba 128MB module was the first to die.
The common factor in two out of the three deaths was Speccy being run at some time in the session immediatley before it died - the third time there were two modules fitted so it wasn't clear exactly when the module failed. Nothing clever or tricky is being run - no memory testers or the like.
Which makes me wonder if Speccy is corrupting the module's SPD info.
I can't say exactly which version was being run as the laptop is dead ATM as I've run out of modules, but it's probably the latest, downloaded directly to the laptop a week or so back.
So is it possible for Speccy to corrupt the SPD data?
<edit> Perhaps I should rephrase that to say: So is it possible that running Speccy is somehow causing the SPD data to be corrupted?
Graham